Why Bother?Having a Will, Estate Plan, Durable Power of Attorney or Medical Power of Attorney
Why bother
having a will?
Will
your spouse be able to live out her days in your home in peace and quiet?
Typically
a person wants his spouse to inherit all of their property so that the
spouse is assured of the continued use and enjoyment of the estate that
the couple had accumulated. That doesn't happen for the estates of those
who die without a Will (intestate succession) if a child of the deceased
survives and the child is not a child of the surviving spouse. The intestate
succession schemes are found in Sections 38 (Separate Property) and 45
(Community Property) of the Texas Probate Code and require the spouse to
share ownership of the property with the decedent's child. The result is
the potential for bad feelings and conflict that can make the spouse's
life miserable. All it takes is for one child or the spouse of a child
to be eager to obtain the inheritance in hand rather than let step-mom
live out her days in the couples' home or let her sell the home in order
to purchase a smaller home or condominium.
How
many family members will say that they were promised a particular piece
of jewelry or furniture?
Mom
or Dad isn't there to resolve the controversy and neither is a statement
of the decedent's intentions, a Will. There can be argument and anger in
the family.
What
if the surviving spouse remarries and decides to leave the entire estate
to the second spouse?
The
children are left with nothing, perhaps not even any mementos. The terms
of the Will of the first to die could have protected the inheritance of
the children at least as to that parent's share of the estate.
Why bother
having an estate plan?
What
if the decedent had a bank or brokerage account and one of the children
was added "for the convenience of paying bills" making it a joint account
with the right of survivorship?
Any
other children are out in the cold. The right of survivorship is a contractual
right that prevails over any other instruction including a Will.
Your
children will take care of the special child, won't they?
Should
they if the child's needs are being met at the expense of the state in
an institution?
Won't
the share of the estate for the special child be used to make his life
easier and more enjoyable?
Actually,
it will be used to pay for his care until it is exhausted. It could have
been set aside in a special trust to provide occasional candy, clothing
and entertainment.
Why bother
with a Durable Power of Attorney?
If
I become incapacitated, my spouse can take care of everything.
Your
spouse has the right to control only her undivided interest in the community
property, not yours, and certainly not your separate property. Without
a Durable Power of Attorney she will have to go to court and be appointed
Guardian of your estate, post a bond for the value of your estate and file
annual accountings of her administration of your estate.
A
power of attorney is only for those who have a chance of getting Alzheimers.
How
about those who have strokes, have an illness that requires powerful drugs
or become incapacitated in home or car accidents?
I
have a power of attorney that was done for me ten years ago before I shipped
overseas.
It
may not be a Durable Power of Attorney. If it is not, then the authority
of the agent stops when you become incapacitated.
I
have a power of attorney that was done for me in Illinois before I moved
here to be near my daughter.
It
may be effective under Illinois law, is it effective under Texas law?
Why bother
with a Medical Power of Attorney?
My
wife knows what I want.
But
she was also in the accident and is now dead, incapacitated or too upset
to talk.
Doesn't
Texas law cover this?
Yes,
Section 313.004 of the Health and Safety Code, but you may believe that
one person is better able than another to handle such a situation.
I've
had long talks about this with my daughter.
Another
child or family member may ignore or not believe the representations of
the person that you confided in.
My spouse
or only child will look out for me.
Have
you talked with them? Do they know what you want? Do you have a Medical
Directive? Do they want the responsibility?
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